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Communication is a family affair. Many people try to hide financial problems from themselves or family members. Hiding financial difficulties from the rest of the family for long is nearly impossible, and it's not emotionally healthy to try. Not facing up to problems prevents you from taking positive steps forward. Because financial decisions affect the whole family, talk with others about the present situation. Let them know about the need to change spending priorities. Involve all family members, regardless of their ages. Include your family in decisions that must be made. As a family, discuss how income is spent, what is important and what is not so important. What must the family have in the next week? In the next month? In the next two months? You may need to alter plans for taking a vacation or scale back on the number of people with whom you plan to celebrate a family event. Communication is sharing. Don't burden family members with unnecessary worry, but do involve them; they may offer solutions or ideas not yet mentioned. Communication is listening. Actively listening includes giving full attention to understanding the feelings of another person. Accusing one another of being responsible for the current economic situation won't help anyone. |
Your expenditures hold the key to how well you do when dollars are scarce. If your family does not follow a spending plan, this is the time to start. Family input is essential, as is being both realistic and flexible. Be creative about how to cut expenditures. Remember, you want to survive comfortably. Here are some suggestions:
Be a smart shopper. Resolve to prioritize and focus on needs, not wants.
Conserve resources by using them wisely. Make your home energy efficient; consolidate shopping trips to the store.
Become more resourceful. Consider planting your own garden; cook items from scratch; offer your services for hire.
If you can pay some bills but not all, set priorities. After paying for secured loans and basic essentials, pay those bills that:
Be wary of quick, short-term, high-interest loans. If you miss just one payment, you could become saddled with a long-term, high-interest debt payments that seemingly never ends. Here is an example of this type of debt: Paying off a $500 loan by making 22 monthly payments of $68 will cost $1,453 (with $953 spent on interest, the interest rate is about 150 percent).
Bankruptcy is not a good option. Financial institutions also are affected by economic issues, and as the funds they have available for loans become restricted, a good credit report for those wanting to borrow money becomes more essential.
Management ToolsTake an inventory of your resources. To help monitor your financial progress, you can use a tool such as the "Family Balance Sheet" (www.ag.ndsu.edu/pubs/yf/fammgmt/fe222c.pdf) to help figure your assets, liabilities and net worth.
Emergency savings are essential. Those attempting to get out of debt may fail to realize that they should have emergency funds available. These funds may help ensure that a debt repayment plan does not have to be postponed for unexpected household or other emergency expenditures.
Reduce consumer debt. Don't ignore your monthly payments on outstanding loans. Make a list of all your debts. Include in that list each debt's annual percentage rate, the specific terms of the contract and any finance charges. Analyze your debt payment options by utilizing a program such as the online program PowerPay (https://powerpay.org). Determine how much you owe to each creditor, then print out a plan for making power payments until you are completely out of debt. Continue making payments to build up your emergency savings to a minimum of three months of expenses.
Check Register Tracking System (HE-471). North Dakota State University Extension Service. Fargo. Available from state specialist.
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Household Account Book (EC 916). South Dakota State University Extension. Brookings. 2004. http://agbiopubs.sdstate.edu/articles/EC916.pdf
Miner, D.F. Jr., and J. Harris. PowerPay: Helping debtors become savers. 2001. https://powerpay.org/
Pankow, D. Financial Term Guide (FE-222a). North Dakota State University Extension Service. Fargo. 2004. www.ag.ndsu.edu/pubs/yf/fammgmt/fe222a.htm
Spending Forecast (FE-222b). North Dakota State University Extension Service. Fargo. 2004. www.ag.ndsu.edu/pubs/yf/fammgmt/fe222b.pdf
Family Balance Sheet (FE-222c). North Dakota State University Extension Service. Fargo. 2004. www.ag.ndsu.edu/pubs/yf/fammgmt/fe222c.pdf
Bankruptcy and the Alternatives (FE-273). North Dakota State University Extension Service. Fargo. 1998. www.ag.ndsu.edu/pubs/yf/fammgmt/he273w.htm
What to Do When Your Income Drops (FE-274). North Dakota State University Extension Service. Fargo. 2001. www.ag.ndsu.edu/pubs/yf/fammgmt/fe274.pdf
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